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Mail Order Brides: Safeguard Yourself

Why IBMs* Need MOBs*

1. The concept of mail order brides is one that has been around for decades but with the advancement of the Internet the term has become outdated. While the name may not be entirely accurate any longer, it is still a practice that is around today and offers a great number of benefits to certain individuals looking for a wife.  

2. Countless numbers of mind blowing women around the world think – god knows exactly why – that you are a remarkable catch.

3. Women from SE Asia are far more easy going and nonjudgmental. Females from the Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, and Vietnam are simple and less sophisticated than in Russia, Europe, China and even America. To many Western guys, this attitude is very refreshing and comfortable to be around. SE Asian girls are not high strung, uptight, or easily offended, so you don’t feel like you’re walking on eggshells around them.

4. They generally treat men better and appreciate them. They admire and respect men, and they seek relationships with men, rather than resist them. Men feel more relaxed around foreign women because they are authentic, down-to-earth, and not so defensive or paranoid.

5. When American males date foreign women, for the first time in their lives, they feel valued and appreciated for what they are. This is something guys seldom experience in America, where virtually everyone is insecure and trying to mask it. This is the essence of true confidence – feeling appreciated and accepted for what you are, not the pseudo fake confidence.

6. They are raised with good family values. They tend to have healthier relationships with their families, not the hate and disdain for their fathers that is common with American women. They will also have better values toward their own family as well, which makes them better marriage material. So if you are looking for a family, foreign women will make better wives.

7. They are marriage-minded with traditional values. Many American men state they are looking for old fashioned values in a spouse. There are many foreign cultures with traditional values where many women are still marriage-minded, such as China, Latin America, Philippines, Russia, and Ukraine. They dream of having a husband and family. They seek fulfillment in finding a good man, and provide love, support and companionship to their partner, which makes them good marriage material.

8. Russian women are very respectful of their men, doing their best to make sure their husband is happy in every way. The Russian culture is different, and women usually dress in very feminine, pretty clothing. It’s important to them that they look very nice, and most Russian women would not be caught wearing jeans or sweatpants and an old t-shirt.

9. They are more tolerant of age differences. In certain cultures such as Russia, Ukraine, Latin America, and SE Asia, women do not mind big age differences with their partner. In fact, some actually see older men as more mature and financially stable, and therefore more trustworthy and better husband material. This is good news for older men seeking foreign partners.

10. Most people think that foreign brides are desperate women who want nothing more than to marry an American to get the hell out of her home country and start a new life. But this is almost always incorrect. Countries like Russia have a man shortage making finding a suitable husband difficult.

11. Foreign women are generally more down-to-earth, authentic, and natural in personality and attitude. You do not need any artificial “game” or PUA techniques to meet or date them. All you have to do is be yourself, as long as you are sincere, decent, down-to-earth, kind and especially charming. Deep down, every normal male prefers women who are feminine and down-to-earth.

12. They still believe in old fashioned romance. Foreign women are not jaded toward romance. They still have a certain purity and innocence within their hearts and spirits that is open to “love” the old fashioned way – which has become lost with Western women. It’s easier to handle even if like me, you are romance impaired.

13. Mail order women seek excitement and a new family in a new environment and the mail order system helps them fulfill this desire.

14. At least two types of “international marriage agencies” exist. The first type sells female contact information and encourages men and women to correspond prior to meeting. Correspondence of this type will drain your bank account and is not recommended, and will likely lead to your being scammed.

15. The second type offers group “romance tours” for men who want to travel around a foreign country and meet hundreds of women at social events organized by the agency. If you have never been to that country before, it can be a good introduction while leaving the logistics to others.

16. Women abroad face their own risks. Being a mail order bride can be very dangerous. There are at least four famous cases of American men brutally murdering their mail order brides.

17. Scams pop up every now and then, but most legitimate websites offer exclusive members who prove to be great individuals helping men settle down and have happy marriages. Not all mail order women are con artists.

18. Mail order brides provide a great way to meet people with whom you have a genuine connection and who can provide you with some warm and loving companionship. Anyone who has been alone for a long period of time will appreciate sharing your life and home with someone in a romantic relationship. You can create memories together, build a life, and share special moments.

19. Before any contact with the women, you can eliminate any inappropriate choices by age, beauty, marital status, children, and any other number of factors. A major advantage of better agencies over the plethora of online dating websites you can find on the Internet, is that every profile is verified and authentic.

20. If you wonder why many of these ladies are so beautiful but still seeking, it is usually because, despite their beauty, they have had bad luck in love. They sign up to the site looking for a sincere and faithful man.

21. Before you begin any communication, know typical scams to avoid.

22. The one scam that cannot be prevented anywhere in the world is a woman sleeping with you, faking an entire relationship, and then taking all your money, and stomping on your heart. True anywhere at home or abroad.

23. FATCA is making it difficult for Americans to open bank accounts or do business abroad. A foreign wife could be a good way to do business anywhere in the world.

24. I believe the future for many IBMs* will be as “mail order husbands”. Restrictions on our financial freedoms, the high cost of health care, and the need for low cost personal assistants in our old age make retiring with a new bride in another country a near utopia.

A mail order bride can be the wife you’ve always been looking for. She can be submissive and have your happiness as her main focus, but she can also be out for your money or looking to escape her current life. Go in with eyes wide open.

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