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Why Introvert Boomer Males Need Mail Order Brides

1. The concept of mail order brides is one that has been around for decades but with the advancement of the Internet the term has become outdated. While the name may not be entirely accurate any longer, it is still a practise that is around today and offers a great number of benefits to certain individuals looking for a wife.

2. Compared to the US, women in Russia/Europe have a much richer and refined intellectual life, are more cultured, higher educated, have a broader knowledge of the world, and speak many more languages. Most of them speak between 2 and 5 languages (like Melania Trump), while most American women speak only their own.

3. The mentality and culture of “feminism” that has taken over America has made it the most unfeminine place in the world. What American feminists don’t realize is that in most of the rest of the world, both male and female, does NOT envy their feminism, but in fact despise it, finding it unnatural and distasteful. Women abroad are free to express their feminine side.

4. It does not feel like walking on eggshells when you are around them. They generally appreciate what you do for them instead of having the “what have you done for me lately” attitude.

5. Finding a bride in this way puts a lot less strain and pressure on you than conventional dating does. Getting to know someone initially online is greatly advantageous to many people. It allows you to casually chat with a number of people at one time without the expense, time and hassle wasted on numerous first dates in an attempt to find the right person.

6. If you want a new family, you can have a chance to get it right. The vast majority of younger women will want children.

7. They are marriage-minded with traditional values. Many American men state they are looking for old fashioned values in a spouse. There are many foreign cultures with traditional values where many women are still marriage-minded, such as China, Latin America, Philippines, Russia, and Ukraine. They dream of having a husband and family. They seek fulfillment in finding a good man, and provide love, support and companionship to their partner, which makes them good marriage material.

8. Foreign brides are usually thin or not overweight. Being overweight is less common in foreign countries, especially in Asia, Russia and Eastern Europe. As such, females abroad are healthier and slimmer – there is no obesity epidemic.

9. They are more tolerant of age differences. In certain cultures such as Russia, Ukraine, Latin America, and SE Asia, women do not mind big age differences with their partner. In fact, some actually see older men as more mature and financially stable, and therefore more trustworthy and better husband material. This is good news for older men seeking foreign partners.

10. Most people think that foreign brides are desperate women who want nothing more than to marry an American to get the hell out of her home country and start a new life. But this is almost always incorrect. Countries like Russia have a man shortage making finding a suitable husband difficult.

11. Foreign women are generally more down-to-earth, authentic, and natural in personality and attitude. You do not need any artificial “game” or PUA techniques to meet or date them. All you have to do is be yourself, as long as you are sincere, decent, down-to-earth, kind and especially charming. Deep down, every normal male prefers women who are feminine and down-to-earth.

12. The advantages of having mail order women as a wife is that two different cultures can come together sharing a single bond of love and happiness for life. It is a very spectacular and heartwarming experience for all countries that matrimonial services are now bringing the world closer.

13. Some women have never married, but some are widows, divorcées or single moms. They act more mature at an earlier age. This is especially true if they are from an economically challenged country, where they have to become more responsible at an earlier age rather than spoiled.

14. At least two types of “international marriage agencies” exist. The first type sells female contact information and encourages men and women to correspond prior to meeting. Correspondence of this type will drain your bank account and is not recommended, and will likely lead to your being scammed.

15. The second type offers group “romance tours” for men who want to travel around a foreign country and meet hundreds of women at social events organized by the agency. If you have never been to that country before, it can be a good introduction while leaving the logistics to others.

16. Women abroad face their own risks. Being a mail order bride can be very dangerous. There are at least four famous cases of American men brutally murdering their mail order brides.

17. Scams pop up every now and then, but most legitimate websites offer exclusive members who prove to be great individuals helping men settle down and have happy marriages. Not all mail order women are con artists.

18. Mail order brides provide a great way to meet people with whom you have a genuine connection and who can provide you with some warm and loving companionship. Anyone who has been alone for a long period of time will appreciate sharing your life and home with someone in a romantic relationship. You can create memories together, build a life, and share special moments.

19. Before any contact with the women, you can eliminate any inappropriate choices by age, beauty, marital status, children, and any other number of factors. A major advantage of better agencies over the plethora of online dating websites you can find on the Internet, is that every profile is verified and authentic.

20. You can be as picky and demanding as you want. If you are going to spend a fair amount of money on finding a foreign bride, good enough is not good enough. Go for the perfect match.

21. Before you begin any communication, know typical scams to avoid. You can get our free report here:

22. With all the many mail order bride agencies present on the Internet, there is a chance that you will fall victim to a scam. Scam agencies can show photos of females that are stolen from the Internet and pretend they are mail order brides. They require you to pay large amounts of money for their services and once they milk you of your money, you will never hear from them again.

23. FATCA is making it difficult for Americans to open bank accounts or do business abroad. A foreign wife could be a good way to do business anywhere in the world.

24. I believe the future for many IBMs will be as “mail order husbands”. Restrictions on our financial freedoms, the high cost of health care, and the need for low cost personal assistants in our old age make retiring with a new bride in another country a near utopia.

A mail order bride can be the wife you’ve always been looking for. She can be submissive and have your happiness as her main focus, but she can also be out for your money or looking to escape her current life. Go in with eyes wide open.

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